My role as a Child Independent Sexual Violence Advisor (CHISVA)
*Content warning: This article contains information about child sexual violence and assault, which some readers may find distressing. Please take care when reading and seek support if needed.
Meet Millie, one of Serenity's dedicated Child Independent Sexual Violence Advisors (CHISVAs). Her role is to provide emotional and practical support to children and young people who have experienced sexual assault or abuse. In this article, Millie shares her journey and why this work matters so much.
Why Millie chose this work
Millie's path to becoming a CHISVA was shaped by her own experiences and a deep desire to make a difference.
I was in care and experienced sexual abuse at a young age. That means I have some idea of what young people are going through. Every person is different, but I can draw on my experiences to help others.
After years in retail management, Millie wanted a career that aligned with her values.
"As I approached 50, I wanted to do something for me. I started volunteering for Victim Support (now Voice), then moved into domestic and sexual violence work. When this job came up, I went for it - it felt like a natural progression"
What does a CHISVA do?
Millie supports children and families through every stage of the process - from initial referral to court proceedings and beyond.
"I have 66 children and a few parents I support daily. That can mean school visits, home visits, or keeping in touch by phone or email. I also help with compensation claims because many families don't know they're entitled to compensation"
Her work is about giving control back to those who've lost it.
"When someone has been sexually assaulted, the control isn't in their hands. When they come here, the control is back in their hands"
Overcoming challenges
Working in this field can be emotionally demanding, but Millie has learned how to manage it.
"I always remember this is not my stuff, it's theirs. They don't need me to be too emotional; they need support. Empathy, listening skills, and clear boundaries are essential"
Why awareness matters
Millie wants people to know that Serenity is here for anyone who needs help.
There are so many children and adults out there who need support. Whether they report or not, they need to know we're here to help.
If you or someone you know needs support after sexual assault, Serenity SARC is here for you. Call us on 0800 183 0023 or visit www.nhft.nhs.uk/serenity/